Anonymous: My mother suffered a pregnancy loss when I was too young to even be told about it. She had my sister afterwards, but I know she still thinks about her angel baby. Is there a way to show her that I think about my angel sibling, too, without bringing up too many painful memories? 

Being someone who has suffered miscarriages I have to say from my personal experience there is no nonpainful way to bring up or talk about them. My husband will mention them every once and awhile and although it hurts me it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one who misses them, thinks about them, and is still hurt by the loss and I’m guessing your mom may feel the same way. It may hurt but it may also bring her comfort knowing you feel the way you do as well. I think it’s something you should definitely talk to her about ♡

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